Thursday, 10 November 2011

Summer 2011

Hope you've been doing fine!

It's been a long time since I posted anything meaningful here, and my excuses for this long absence are... "Wasn't in a mood", "Too busy trying to earn a few pennies", "Taken up a course", "Too angry to write", etc.

Anyway, I tried my first acrylic painting, and here is the completed one:


I guess you are staring at the screen and saying "What the f... ?", soI should explain a bit. All the things in the picture are what I saw this summer in London:

Flowers at the top (including the red one with white outline)
From the tiles of Islamic world at Victoria & Albert museum. Since I was little, I have always been attracted to the Middle Eastern and Central Asian stuff and I spent quite a long time in the Islamic section in the museum.

Purple dots and grey sky
Ceiling in our favourite café where me and my big girl eat Arab food and my wee one has fish and chips.

Flowers at the bottom
Gold flowers on a headdress from an excavated tomb in Afghanistan. I paid £10 to see a special exhibition at the British Museum, which was worth more than £100!

Profile with red outline
One of many wet specimens at Hunterian Museum at the Royal College of Surgeons.  It is a right section of a child’s face, which was dyed to show the tumour inside the nose, but the dye ended up colouring the whole skin and the face looked as if he died only 5 minutes ago. (He lived in 19th century, I think…) We joined a free guided tour at the museum, which was very very very good. (Yes, I’m a nerd:)) )
I painted the profile without much detail to remember that we visited Tate Modern to see contemporary art. The red line kind of suggests that his face was sliced in half.

Blue lady on the centre-right and rainbow on the left
London Pride (gay parade) and the air kiss I got from the bloke in sparkling blue dress and blue make-up, of course;) The rainbow is not like a natural rainbow because it is meant to be a huge long cloth that filled the whole street during the parade.

Hand and clown at the bottom-right, and  potted plant at the top-left corner
We went to Barbican Gallery to see a special exhibition on animation, and The Hand by a Czech animator Jiri Trinka was the most memorable and impressive for all three of us. I should have taken you to the exhibition! It was fantastic!!! After coming home, I managed to get hold of the DVD which contains "The Hand" and other short animation works! Thanks to the DVD, now I’m reading The Good Soldier Svejk.

Girl on slope
We spotted her while eating sandwiches on a bench in Kensington Gardens. She must have been only 3-4 years old, and she was with her mother and another set of mother + little daughter. The girl suddenly started making a yoga pose in front of us, while strolling behind her mother, which was very comical. (Her mother looked a posh upper-middle class who eats organic food and practises yoga.)
In the painting, I just let her grab the rainbow. Wanted her to bring down the world in a way that no adults could ever do.

Pink glasses
Worn by a heroine of the film we watched in London. The film was made by a Chinese-New Zealander woman and the title is “My Wedding and Other Secrets”, which was a special screening at a New Zealand Film Festival. One of the actresses made a speech before the film!

My girls instantly figured out what each thing in the painting was, so  I'm quite happy about the result. I didn't know painting can be so time-consuming, but it was great fun!

Saturday, 8 October 2011

Just let you know...

... I still exist:)

Haven't posted anything for the last several weeks. Well, I have been busy with work (Long hours but not much earning, actually. That's life.) and painting (I'll upload a pic when it is finished). Because of those 2 things plus my family life, I haven't got my energy left for anything else.

See you soon!

Wednesday, 22 June 2011

Mm...

My girls are growing, and now my wee one (12) is taller than my big girl (14)!

Should I invent new nicknames for this blog?

Saturday, 18 June 2011

Happy B****y Father's Day!

It's Father's Day tomorrow, and this afternoon I paid for Father's Day's card + present for a man who has a lovely stepdaughter-to-be. I didn't even know that I had paid for those stuff until this evening, and I haven't even met him in my life.

The thing was, my wee one was with her best friend all day today, and she asked me for £2 to buy something from a shop which was to close in 5 minutes. I had no time for interrogation, and handed over the money to her ungrudgingly, which wasn't really what I usually do.

After my wee one 's friend went home, I asked my wee one what she got from the shop. She answered,
"A (= her friend) wanted to get something for her mum's fiance for tomorrow's Father's Day, so she bought a card and a little present."

I'm not angry with anyone, but please someone tell me why I always end up helping out people of better financial positions on my rainy days??

Tuesday, 14 June 2011

I've been quiet recently, but...

... it's been bit tougher than usual recently.

First, my contract with an Indian company ended in mid May. They said that this was due to the stabilization of their business with Japan and they were currently focusing on getting more clients from other Asian countries. So, they had now very few job for me and they had no reason to keep me. They also said that the end of the contract did not mean good-bye, and they would get in touch with me when any suitable projects came up in future. It would be nice if I can work for them now and again, but I don't wait for them, though. I've been doing some little jobs on the net (nothing illegal or filthy, don't worry!) while trying to find new clients.

So, it means I have less income. Pity. But what can I do? I'll just keep looking and keep trying. But one good thing: the house and the gardens are bit tidier (miracle!) and I have a time for baking and writing. Seems that the creative part of my brain has been switched on again, which is nice. I have been baking sourdough loaves one a week, and cook more variety of dishes. I even have a time to sit with my girls in the evening. Lovely.

So, I've had a few moments of proper quality time with my girls. After a barbecue with my girl and my wee one's friend, A, on one Friday, 3 of us decided the next day to go for a long walk to the cemetery where their granny and granda were buried. I had promised that we would walk to the cemetery (about 40 min on foot?) last summer because the last visit was when my girls were toddlers. But with the bad weather and my workload, I couldn't keep the promise. But it was a gorgeous day on that Saturday and we enjoyed the walk. We had such a nice time that we decided to repeat it on another fine Saturday so that we can tidy and the family grave.

On the way home from the cemetery, we bravely went inside of a halal shop and found quite many nice Asian food stuff including baklava. Glad that we have one more favourite shop in the town.

Must go and make a dough for tomorrow's bread baking.

Monday, 6 June 2011

Mooncup: A beginner’s review


If you would not like to read women’s stuff, please go to another page NOW.

Mooncup is very little known in this country, even though being sold by a UK company. This menstrual cup is, in short, a reusable silicon cup that catches discharge inside vagina. An alternative for sanitary towels and tampons. All you need is one Mooncup. So, no need to keep spending your money for buying hundreds of packets of pads and tampons, and also no need to contribute polluting the environment by such disposable sanitary goods.

Sounds good? I guess many of you have apprehension. Would Mooncup be as good as testimonials in its official website? Would it hurt? Would it leak? Isn’t it expensive? Is it hygienic? Would it messy to handle? Well, such questions popped up in my head, but I plucked up courage and bought one. So, here is my personal review of Mooncup.

Price
Mooncup is £21.99 at Boots, and around £17 – 18 on the net. Yes, it’s not a kind of stuff that you buy just because it caught your eyes in a shop by chance. It looks horribly expensive especially when it is sitting beside a price sign for other sanitary goods such as “Buy 2 for £2”. If you live on the dole, such a price puts you off to start using a Mooncup, of course. BUT, one Mooncup lasts for many years (unless you lose it), and it won’t take you long to spend £22 for sanitary goods.  So, it is not really expensive.

Size
Mooncup is available in two sizes: A and B, but it is very easy to choose one that is right for you. No need to measure anything, no need to calculate anything. Just with your age and birth experience, you pick your size.
After opening the box, the first thing I thought was “Wow, bigger than I thought!” But the thing is, I actually don’t know the exact anatomy of my body inside. So, no wonder I was surprised. After all, I gave birth to two babies. So, a Mooncup is not big really.
How to use
One thing that I like about Mooncup is that it shouldn’t go deep inside your body.  But I guess some of women/girls, who, for example, have never been examined for gynaecological/obstetrical reasons, might not like the idea of inserting an object inside. But for those who do not become too nervous or embarrassed to examine the parts by themselves, and who have given births, there shouldn’t be any big problems. All you have to do is practise to get used to this new device. It might take a few tries until you feel confident using your Mooncup. But it’s a kind of skill that you quickly learn by a bit of experience. 

Leakage?
I bet the biggest worry for everyone is leakage. In my case, there were 3 leakages during the first time. But it happened during the heaviest days, and each was just a very tiny stain (and fortunately I was wearing a small sanitary towel).  Compared to the days I used conventional towels, my clothes are much cleaner with Mooncup.

Comfortable?
Yes, definitely. I often forget it was in the middle of my period when I used my Mooncup, because I don’t feel a thing while wearing it and also because my skin is clean and dry. It is fine while exercising, sleeping, running, etc. I feel liberated, indeed, and I’m not exaggerating about this feeling of freedom.

Messy?
Yes, if you count emptying bloody discharge into toilet/drain as messy. But definitely NO to me. It is handy if you have a sink next to a toilet so that you can rinse your Mooncup while sitting on the toilet. But I was absolutely fine even in public toilets. You will soon get used to handling the cup, surely.

My verdict
I’m sure that my Mooncup will stay with me for another several years. I do understand various kinds of apprehensions and I don’t want to be pushy, but I recommend any women to have a try. The price and availability are a main issue, surely. Big supermarkets such as Tesco seem not keen to stock Mooncups. Also, the “disposable” culture and current economic climate, which hinder eco-friendlier life, does not encourage women to start using them. 

Anyway, thanks for reading this much.

Tuesday, 10 May 2011

Bonjour!

Today, I wasted my whole evening by helping my wee one with French pronunciation. French oral exam will be on tomorrow, you see. Yesterday my big one corrected her little sister's French writing.

Guess what? I have never learned French at school. Never owned a textbook, either. My knowledge of French (words/phrases and pronunciation) comes from my favourite films and music plus a general phonetics course at university.

Probably I was a French-speaking person in my former life... ?

Oh my goodness, I haven't done the washing-up yet!!! Kids are in bed now, so I have to do it. It's my bed time, you know.